Hey Ken,
I laughed when I saw the rolling eyes on f/7.1.......becuase of the BG I'd imagine. This is still an excellent image and pose. Do I wish the BG was less intrusive....yes, but by no means a deal breaker! We all strive for the "perfect' moment.....if there is such a thing......but given the whole scene you witnessed, this one will bring back some great memories your entire lifetime!
This is extremely well composed and what a story! Thank you for sharing it. Love how you can see that sagging belly. Yes the BG is a bit busy, but the subject is so powerful that it becomes an after thought.
Love the pose with good eye contact, I don't think f/5.6 or even f/4 would be enough Ken to isolate the BG anyway due to her proximity and your distance.
The subject has enough to stand on it's own anyway.
TFS